21 and no dating experience
The fact that you’re worried about how to act suggest to me that your brain is more focused on what the woman might want from you rather than what you might want from the woman.
I never went to a school dance or prom (even though my parents were not happy about it). I am too nice, and not aggressive in making things happen. This may stem from the fact that I even have trouble hugging people, and saying “I love you” to family members.You can’t assert yourself when you are worried about keeping other people from rejecting you!Anyway, I think there is a lot of hope for you and I think your difficulty can be overcome if you are willing to become active and face your fears.” again and again the next time you are in a dating situation and see if it doesn’t help.You need to develop your own perspective – what you want – and avoid allowing the perspective of other people to colonize your head.